Identity forms the core of how we understand ourselves and navigate the world around us. It encompasses the beliefs, values, and roles we embrace, shaping our sense of purpose and belonging. For many, identity is rooted in external factors such as achievements, relationships, or societal expectations. However, a deeper understanding—especially from a spiritual perspective—invites us to see ourselves as children of a loving Creator. This shift offers profound security, freedom, and inner peace, freeing us from the pressure to prove our worth and empowering us to live with confidence and purpose.

In this episode of The Live From Rest Podcast, Steve Smith and his wife, Lucinda, explore the powerful question, "Who am I?" They delve into the significance of true identity from a Christian perspective, emphasizing how recognizing ourselves as beloved children of a Heavenly Father brings peace and freedom from anxiety. Lucinda shares her personal journey of embracing her true identity as God's daughter and the transformative impact this understanding has had on her life.

This conversation is essential for anyone seeking to break free from the pressures of self-reliance and external validation. 

Here are three reasons why you should listen to this episode:

1. Reflect on the impact of understanding your true identity as a child of God.
2. Learn how to break free from the pressures of external validation and self-reliance by embracing a deeper connection with God.
3. Discover how to overcome the "orphan mentality" that can hinder your peace and spiritual growth.
   
   

Resources

• Live from Rest Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify 
• Live from Rest App: Google Play | App Store
• Lucinda Smith’s Blogs
• The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey

Episode Highlights

Lucinda's Perspective on Identity

• Lucinda reflects on the impact of knowing God as a loving Heavenly Father. 
• This understanding makes life easier and provides a safe, liberating space to live. 
• While the journey of fully grasping this true identity is lifelong, Lucinda emphasizes that living as God's child brings freedom and peace. 

Lucinda: “Once we know who we are, that we are children, sons and daughters, then we can cope with everything that gets thrown at us within that context.”

• Both Steve and Lucinda agree that embracing this truth helps to navigate life’s challenges, particularly when facing rejection and setbacks.
  
  

God as a Constant Companion

• God is a constant companion, he is never rejecting, humiliating, or abandoning us.

Lucinda: “God is the only one that's never going to reject you. He is never going to humiliate you, he is never going to let you down. He's never going to leave you. He's never going to embarrass you, he's never going to die, he's never going to abandon you.”

• Lucinda likens God's presence to that of a strong, protective father, always there to offer security and support. 
• This perspective shifts how we approach life's challenges, offering a sense of protection and provision. 
• With God as our constant companion, every situation becomes more manageable, knowing we are not alone in the struggle.
  
  

Upcoming Webinars and Identities

• Steve announces an upcoming webinar hosted by Lucinda, where she will explore the theme of identity. 
• Scheduled for November 8th, the webinar will discuss three essential identities: God as a Father, believers as sons and daughters, and the reality of spiritual warfare. 
• Lucinda explains that understanding these identities is key to minimizing anxiety and insecurity in life. 
• Steve encourages listeners to mark their calendars for this important event, with more webinars to come in the new year.
  
  

The Journey of Becoming a Child of God

• Steve and Lucinda reflect on the journey of embracing our identities as a child of God. 
• Steve himself did not fully understand this identity for decades, despite being a Christian. 
• The conversation touches on the concept of living as orphans—constantly trying to impress others and seeking external validation. 
• Lucinda stresses that Jesus promises not to leave us as orphans, urging listeners to embrace their identity as sons and daughters of God, which forms the foundation of spiritual peace and security.
  
  

The Parable of the Prodigal Son

• The Parable of the Prodigal Son demonstrates the meaning of “orphan mentality” and how it separates us from God and our true identity.
• The second son didn't recognize his father's love and provision and instead always felt the need to earn his favor.
• This is a reflection of how many people live their lives—self-sufficient and distant from God.
• Lucinda emphasizes the importance of recognizing and overcoming these "orphan ways" in order to fully experience God's love and provision as His beloved children.

Lucinda: “Once we can identify our orphan ways, then we can start to sort of think more about, ‘Okay, that's an orphan way.’ What would it look like to live as a son or as a daughter?”

Meditation and Practical Applications

• Steve encourages listeners to use the "Live from Rest" app for meditation, specifically a meditation based on John 1:12.
• John 1:12 highlights the spiritual value of meditating on the fact that we are children of God, which changes everything.
• Lucinda’s upcoming blog posts center on rest and identity, will provide further insights for future webinars.
• They discuss the song "I Am No Longer a Slave to Fear" and how it reflects the life-changing truth of being a child of God.
  
  

About Lucinda Smith

Lucinda Smith is a speaker, author, and passionate advocate for discovering and embracing our true identity as children of God. Throughout her work, she emphasizes how understanding our relationship with God can bring profound peace, freedom, and purpose. As a regular contributor to the Live from Rest podcast and app, Lucinda shares valuable insights into the transformative power of living as God’s beloved children.

Her teachings are deeply rooted in her own spiritual journey, where she moved from an orphan mentality to confidently embracing her identity as a daughter of the Heavenly Father. Through this experience, she encourages others to break free from the pressures of self-reliance, societal expectations, and the need for external validation. Her message offers a refreshing perspective on finding peace through God’s love and unconditional acceptance. Known for her warm, relatable, and thoughtful approach, Lucinda inspires her audience to discover their worth not in achievements, but in who they are in Christ.

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